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by John » Tue Jun 06, 2023 05:37 pm
Yesterday I spent 3 hours in a hospital emergency room, waiting for doctors to get an earring out of Karly's ear. She'd pushed it in too far and it got swollen and infected. I didn't have anything quite tiny enough to get hold of it, not that she'd let me. Doctor said no earrings for at least 2 weeks and I said she'd be lucky if I let her have them until she was 21. I was kidding of course, but I'd be just as happy if she didn't. I spent a lot of the time playing chess on my phone.
Tomorrow I have to take Cheri to Columbia at an unearthly hour, which means I'll be lucky to get 2 hours of sleep. She's having a biopsy done on what looks like a cancer on her adrenal gland. She got rid of the colon cancer but this looks to be an offshoot of that. She's also got a kidney cancer but it's growing so slowly they're not so worried about that. Of course, I've been worried to death about all of it but I can't imagine the nightmare she's going through.
I've seen the CAT scan and I'm not optimistic about the diagnosis but I'm still hopeful it can be taken care of. That means all day waiting, if she doesn't have to stay over night. Her Mom will be with me. I got very lucky with my in-laws. She lost her Dad a few years ago, but they were both very nice to me. That's made life a lot easier than it could have been. Still hoping for a happy ending for all of this but at best, it's going to be a long time. John